My sex drive part 2

I’ve blogged about my sex drive before. This time I thought I’d let you in on a secret.

My hubby is not always able to keep up with me so I sometimes have to relieve myself, masturbate. I know it is something we British never do, let alone talk about but in my book needs must at times.

I can work fairly well with my hands (I must admit whilst reading “The Story of O” I was so horny I took myself upstairs to “read”.)

I have a tiny flowery vibrator that works well if held in the right place at the right time, but I really need to feel something inside me, something I can feel myself tighten around.  I bought my black toy for a really good price and use it a few times a week as I need.

I travelled abroad without my hubby and took along my black toy, it was a but nerve wracking as I went through baggage check! I was able to chat with my hubby online one night and play with my toy which was a lot of fun. As it is a double ended toy me and hubby have used it when playing together and I liked that a lot.


Chatting to some friends recently hubby decided to try out a male stroker,  our friends often use it to play together so we thought we would give it a go. Prior to this hubby had said hands are perfectly sufficient. The male stroker  has two sides and is fully washable. We had a play and realised on side is tighter than the other. From the look on his face and the noises he made I think he enjoyed it! He said it was not as good as sex with a woman, but was much better than just hands. He wished he had found out about it years ago.

I know my sex drive rises and falls, my hubby’s too when he is really busy and tired, so finding ways to relieve yourself helps to keep your relationship safer.

Can I be really nosey and as if you are willing to admit that you masturbate in our comments below? Do you have any toys you would not be without? I’d love to know.

Here are links to a few things I have mentioned for you to try for yourself.


Can I be really nosey and as if you are willing to admit that you masturbate in our comments below? Do you have any toys you would not be without? I’d love to know.

6 thoughts on “My sex drive part 2

  • August 15th, 2017 at 3:18 am

    Yes of course I masturbate ! it’s goes hand in hand with being single ,I don’t have any toys but that male stroker looks like it would be fun. I guess has been my toy , mite have to invest in some toys and try something new! Just hate going into a toy store they make you feel guilty about being there !
    Thanks for the great blog !

    • August 31st, 2017 at 7:30 pm

      Thanks Kerry. I enjoyed writing it.

  • August 22nd, 2017 at 12:41 am

    Happy to admit that I do – and I think people who deny it probably lie 😉

    • August 31st, 2017 at 7:29 pm

      Me too!

  • October 23rd, 2017 at 10:20 am

    I have a penis pump which i love!! I also have a latex ass/vagina bought from an online toy retailer which was great once the latex smell had worn off. Despite having regular and varied sex, masturbation is very important to me and i love these toys. I would never be without them.

  • January 31st, 2018 at 12:55 pm

    You’re darn right I do! I don’t have one of those stroker thingys, but I may actually invest in one now, especially being as I am single and haven’t had sex in over three years haha!

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